I love you! I really do! But not in all specified way. I see you from the bay, Admire your presence. I see your changing phases, From calm and neat, To arrogant but sweet. Everyone in the world is wanting your chase.
You have your flaws I have mine too. Acceptance with imperfections isn’t that love teaches you to do? I cherish your imperfection By becoming your reflection ! Every time I try to least our distance, My actions are hindered by some resistance. Maybe these forces are greater than our force of attraction. But hey love, I’ll jump and fall back but will never stop making efforts For that I know nothing is forever, but I hope it does get some better.
It annoys me when you suddenly disappear, I always wish you were here. The day I don’t have your sight, is the day I am all quite. And the day when you are full of you, I wish I could tell you what you make me go through.
-Riddhi Panchal
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Uncertainty is so fragile. One moment you think you own this world and the next moment is full of doubt. I know we all are going through some rough patch and thinking about the future is the obvious thing to do. Speaking about thinking, we now have a lot of time to do that ( as lock down is been practiced all around the world). But this thinking is now turning into overthinking for many of us. We are doubting our relationships, our careers!
‘Do they miss me the same way I am missing them right now?’ ‘Do we share the same bond we used to share back then?’ ‘Is there any future?’ ‘& if its there, what am I going to do? ‘Do I still hold that Job?’ and many more….. Too many questions right? I am no expert! But uncertainty does make you feel anxious. It is not easy to deal with uncertainty. It has never been that easy. But Hey, all these feelings are valid. Love, Hate, Sympathy, Respect, Aggression, Doubt, Frustration ( you know this list is going to be a big one! 😅) All these feelings are valid until they are expressed right! People have different response towards uncertainty. Some freak out while some don’t bother much. But mind you, ‘people are different not difficult’. These responses are merely based on one’s choices and beliefs.
There are so many things that are uncertain to us but we still keep the hope. We ‘hope’ that one day these things will be certain to us. Take for instance when King Ravan abducted Devi Sita, Lord Ram never knew how he is going to save her. Will he be able to see his love again? But he didn’t lose hope. He did everything that was possible for him in accordance with honesty towards his karma. He had full faith in his love for Sita that he would make it to her. One victory lead to another and he did saved Devi Sita by defeating King Ravan (long story short)
My point is we should trust the process and should not merely give up on things, just by thinking we are not capable of doing it & not trying.
Ace Hood – “Even when it’s tough you keep on pushing that’s the concept / Keep your head up, keep the faith and Trust the process.” Don’t get me wrong, it is important that your goals are focused towards a specific result. Ultimately, that is what we are all after. However, if you focus solely on the end result, you are setting yourself up for failure. When it comes down to actually getting things done, there’s a much better way to go about it. Also your goals must be process oriented. There is beauty in not knowing what universe have kept for us. Uncertainty also comes up with new opportunities in life. The possibility that anything can happen is more but what if that ‘anything’ is what you wanted/waited for your entire life.
Another example of uncertainty and how it is been leaded by the characters In the book The Notebook by Nicholas Sparks’ which is also a movie now,
(Spoiler alert 👉) A love story where a person is reading the story from his notebook, and implies to the audience that he is reading to his wife, who suffers from Alzheimer’s disease and does not recognize him. Throughout the story he explains he is also ill, battling a third cancer, and suffering heart disease, kidney failure, and severe arthritis in his hands.
He resumes reading the story and describing their life together: her career as a noted painter, their children, growing old together, and finally the diagnosis of Alzheimer’s. He had changed the names in the story to protect her, but he is Noah and she is Allie.
In the last scene, Noah goes to see Allie and finds her in bed asleep. She wakes up, recognizes him as Noah, and tells him that she loves him. They kiss and fall asleep next to each other, believing their love will take them away together.
Noah knew it is highly uncertain for Allie to recognize him again but he never lose hope. He kept reading to her. Believing That “Science only goes so far and then comes God” And in the end she did recognize him.
TRUST THE WAIT. Embrace the Uncertainty. Enjoy the beauty of becoming. When nothing is certain, Anything is possible. – Mandy Hale.
Thank you for reading ! Hope you have a wonderful day 😀
Appreciation is the highest form of prayer, for the acknowledge the presence of good wherever you shine the light of your thankful thoughts –
Alan Cohen
We thank every person who does something for us. We kind of appreciate every other person for their smallest deeds towards us. Appreciation is always good. It makes us look more caring, generous and also encourages the other person to do more of that work. Also self appreciation is important. The world is becoming tougher day by day. We don’t need more egoistic people around us. We need to be kinder towards others. This is the only way to build up our whole new world which is kinder towards each other.
We need to recognize the work of our colleagues, they are the reason why our daily routine is going smooth. Being arrogant is not cool anymore. Everyone is fighting their own war of life. In such a situation, your kinder gesture will surely make a difference. Your gratitude will give them a sign of hope.
Also for that matter, we should not forget ourselves. We need to thank ourselves for getting up in the most unfortunate situation & fighting all odds. Appreciate yourselves for getting up in mornings, going for work, talking to your toxic friends even when you were not in the mood, for having a self-care day & many more. Your cheat days are VALID. Your imperfections are VALID. You are VALID. Wanting a validation is not a bad ritual, everyone needs it. You need to appreciate all of it. Don’t blame yourself for every damn thing that happens around you. The universe is by your side.
Have you ever visualized yourself somewhere you really want to be & got instant goosebumps? In the world of confusion , uncertainty & unclear mind , have you ever got that good feeling about something that you really want to be ? You always wanted to work on yourself towards that ‘something’ in your life but only didn’t because of people around you thought you are not capable of that particular thing. If it is, so save yourself !
Take stand for yourself cause only you CAN. Always fight for the things that make you feel happy & ALIVE. Disappointments may occur but never lose HOPE. The way you don’t give up on your cravings , don’t give up on your dreams😉. No one can see what you see in yourself , no one can feel the same as you feel about yourself. Where there is effort and self dedication , DESTINY has no role to play.
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The thing you are finding , without which you can’t live, which is the only purpose of your life is within YOU. So save yourself!
कुछ तो लोग कहेंगे लोगों का काम है कहना छोड़ो बेकार की बातों में कहीं बीत ना जाये रैना
TRANSLATE : “The people would say something; their job itself is to speak”
Wriddhi 